I attribute my success in teaching my students to two circumstances in my life. I was lucky enough to be tutored in Math and Science for years by Professor Vladimir, who graduated the Phys-Math program from the Soviet version of MIT (remember Sputnik?), and lucky enough to participate and volunteer at Tony Robbins’ seminars (truly the master of reframing!).
Vladimir taught me the WHY of everything, I could prove why every formula I was using was true, and more importantly he taught me how to search out the why of everything for myself.
This was a huge change from my Math teachers’ focus on learning how to bang out any answer with a given formula (I was in Honors and AP!). It still shocks and angers me how many students (and even a fellow tutor) don’t learn simple concepts like how to prove a 3-4-5 triangle is what it is or why a 30-60-90 triangle has a hypotenuse of 2x. If you don’t know why, you’re just using a magic spell, and when you stack magic spells together for a few years, the understanding falls away. And we wonder why we’re falling behind in math! Thanks to Vladimir, I pass this approach of mastering the concepts on to my students so they can have a foundation of understanding instead of magic spells when they continue schooling without me.
Tony Robbins taught me that our world is a series of stories that we tell ourselves, some that give us strength, some that sap, and that we have the power to change them. From him, I learned how to notice beliefs that sap strength in myself and others and how to help change them from a place of love and non-judgment. Now when I hear a student tell me they’re slow, I offer them that maybe they are just methodical? Because if you’re slow, you’re slow and maybe even dumb but if you’re methodical, you can instead be methodical, and become quick yet patient even if you start at the same speed. When a student tells me they hate math, after a few why’s we may find out that it’s just being bad at math that they hate and since they have to do it anyway, getting better at math would make them feel a whole lot better. What a change in identity towards math, without a single “X=?”. Without the lessons I learned from Tony Robbins on how to reframe, I wouldn’t be half the tutor I am.
I feel grateful to many people that have helped me become who I am, but these two have made themselves pillars in my foundation of how to tutor for mastery and excellence